How to deal with hate! by 90steens
Were all teenagers here. And we all deal with hate. Some of us have a great deal of hate more than others and well here's how I go about it when I feel the need to drag people who are spilling hate on me. You can also merge up some of the points cause that's what I do.
If you a black person and you got some white nigga saying some racist white stuff, just point them out and try to reason with them. If not, beat their ass cause there's nothing more annoying than a racist white fuck boy.
If you're the kind of person who is dealing with racism in your family or one of your family members does not treat you well, then try to reason with them and if they are still too thick-headed to understand, cut them out of your life or have as little to do with them as possible. Yeah it might seem impossible because well their your family but if they don't treat you well, treat yourself well
If you've got a hater that's constantly on your back and pissing you off, you gotta stand up for yourself cause nobody's gonna do it for you. You can throw them some shade, or spill the receipts on their life. You also have to decide on the type of friends you hate. Some friends won't stick up to you when someone is bullying you or anything and those are the friends you need to avoid in your life. Make friends that support you, and when anyone tries to piss you off, you and them are gonna throw shade that gonna cause an eclipse.
Also learn how to use the word "Fuck off" Say fuck off like you're swatting a fly that's biting your ear, because that's really all you're doing. They probably didn't expect confrontation, and even if they did, you don't have to do anything else. It makes it clear it was bugging you, and that they should stop, and that even if they continue they'll get the same lack-luster response. It's not giving them what they want necessarily.
If someone is throwing hate at you on social media, just ignore it. People are the worst, and they'll post things on the Internet that they'd never dare say to your face. The best way to respond to a loser is by ignoring the nonsense they spill out of their mouth, unless you have a really good comeback cause if you don't you're gonna embarrass yourself which would result in you never going on social networks again. Also, if you post a photo and people call you ugly and shit, don't let that stuff get you down, cause if your photos make them offended, then why are they your friends at all? That's a reason why the block button was there and don't be afraid to use it. Block those basics out of your life.
Make a joke out of the hate people are spilling on you. For example, When people say "that's gay," I respond with "oh, so it's fucking amazing?" or if people ask "Are you still gay?" and you'll be like "My contract just got extended"
Ok, yes you saw right! "Okay" Anytime people are ranting about you maybe based on your looks and your personality or your grades or something and then they never seem to end and when they do just be like "okay" then walk away from them like you own the damn place. This method is actually my favorite and I use it like almost everyday of my life. Because this actually makes the haters think their rant is irrelevant as hell which by the way it is.
Be sassy as fuck. No one cal tell you what to do, no one can tell you what to wear, no one can tell you what to become. If you are feeling your look and someone tries to drag you down, be like "I don't dress to impress you, I dress to impress myself" and if anyone tell you shit about how your personality should be like tell them "I don't give a fuck about your life so why don't you mind your goddamn businesses cause my life is not ""our"" lives. What I do does not affect you in anyway so why do you care?" Also, give them the eyes you know, like the ones that look like they're about to pierce someone soul.
One of the best ways to respond to hate is by achieving something successful. For example, in a group of 12 year old boys who are discussing their careers, one ambition is to be a make-up artiste but as its presumed to be a "ladies" job, people try to talk him out of it. some even tease him. After 13 years, some of his friends are jobless and find out he's now a top renowned make-up artiste working with prominent celebrities. Now that's a big fuck you right there!
Here are some cool sweary insults. You can send it to their emails or print them and stuff them in their lockers.
But most importantly, get some friends, family, people who love you for you. Those who are open-minded. That's the main key to dealing with hate. Its all about yourself for being who you are, be confident, be fabulous cause the haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate and baby I'm just gonna shake, shake, shake, shake, shake, shake it off. Shake off what haters say because your life doesn't revolve around them but around you.
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