How to love yourself ? by 90steens

We all have insecurities, I even have my biggest insecurity and they can be a bug.  And sometimes, they make us feel less of ourselves but I managed to put aside negative thoughts and  Here are a few tips on avoiding those insecurities and loving yourself:

• Stop comparing yourself to others. Everyone on this earth is unique. We all have different gifts. You don't you what one has been through so don't compare yourself to them because they are successful.
• Treat people how you'd want to be treated by others. Love or at least be compassionate and respectful towards everyone and everything, especially people you think don't deserve it. Live without hate and loving yourself will just come naturally. 
• Stop caring what others think of you. What people think of you is none of your business. You have your own opinions to yourself not others. It all comes down to listening to the voice in your head, not what other people say... Sometimes you just gotta say fuck it I'm doing what I want to do.
• Constantly remind yourself that you are the shit.
• Praise yourself. Criticisms brings down the inner spirits. Praise raises it up. Tell yourself how well you're doing with every little thing.
• Stop terrorizing yourself with negative thoughts. Find a mental image that gives you pleasure and immediately switch your scary thoughts to a pleasant thought.
• Keep true to your beliefs and focus on being happy. Surround yourself with good friends that build you up, not bring you down.
• Forgiveness. Don't focus on all the bad things you've done (or the things you think are bad). Forgive yourself.
•  Realizing you're fucking awesome. You can also do the same. You might not be as awesome as me, but you can still try. 
•  Listen to music that makes you feel good about yourself. We all listen to music when we're upset so why not give it a try?